Shunning people from cafeteria tables, gossip, vandalism, physical scuffles, and residents checking their mail at night to avoid running into an unkind cohabitant are just some examples of bullying among older people living in assisted living facilities. 

While the issue may not be widespread, experts are telling the 65+ population, their loved ones and their caregivers why the problem exists and how to confront it. Ari Lakritz is a clinical psychologist at OSF HealthCare in Alton who has taken a keen interest in mental health care for older folks. He says some of the seniors arrive with untreated and possibly unknown mental health issues. Dr. Lakritz sums up the second reason: old habits are hard to break.

Another simpler explanation: older people are cranky due to issues that come with age like chronic pain or feelings of helplessness. Lakritz says the solutions are multi-faceted but must start with the caregivers. And the facilities can take short-term steps, such as holding anti-bullying or anger management classes for staff and residents.