While the holidays are a time of great joy and anticipation for many, there are numerous others who do not experience that.

The holiday season can often be a catalyst for increased domestic violence because of stressors like finances and cultivating the perfect Christmas for loved ones. On the WHOW Morning Show Thursday, Andrea Kocher, Director of Services at Willow Tree Missions in Piatt County, told the Hart Media Group her heart is always heavy this time of the year, thinking about those who are likely to see an occurrence of domestic violence.

According to Kocher, the holidays tend to bring out occurrences of domestic abuse in some form. She explains some victims know where they are in the cycle and will sometimes trigger the abuser just to get past that point and return to the honeymoon period for the holidays.

The desire for the perfect Christmas is natural, and Kocher indicates that victims, if they have children, want that for them. She indicates many victims are willing to tolerate much more so they can create the magical holiday experience for their kids.

There is often a stigma around victims that if they do not leave or press charges against their abusers, then they have no one to blame but themselves for their circumstances. Kocher points out that the control an abuser has on their victim is sometimes so overwhelming, leaving is one of the most dangerous times for a victim.

Kocher hopes those in need this holiday season will seek help. You can visit willowtreemissions.org for more information on all its services. You can also call 217-762-2350.